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מה עושים כשחברך יוצא עם בת זוג "מפלצת"?

Beit Hillel

Beit Hillel

You should always praise a bride
for her beauty.
you cannot offend someone
just  because of truth.
see the Talmudic debate here

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Beit Shamai

Beit Shamai

Always!?
and what if she is ugly?
You cannot lie!!
praise her, for what she is.
see the Talmudic debate here

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סיכום ביניים

Seinfeld's dilemma of truth versus compassion was compared to a Talmudic debate about how to complement an ugly bride. While both values are considered very important in the Jewish tradition , Beit Hilllel claimed that you cannot offend someone for the sake of sticking to the truth. An interesting rebuttal was made that this will lead to a phony polite society where you can never know what others are thinking of you (as illustrated in the Seinfeld ugly baby episode).

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Matt Gluck

Matt Gluck

24.4.2017| 21:26

I agree with Jerry because it would not have been fair to Kramer because it most likely would have ruined Kramer's image of his girlfriend.  Kramer, nor his girlfriend, deserve to have their relationship ruined because Jerry does not like Kramer's girlfriend.

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  • Josh Sussman

    Josh Sussman

    24.4.2017| 21:29
    Matt Gluck>

    I agree with you because you don't want to ruin someone else's relationship just because you don't like their girlfriend.

  • Elazar Cramer

    Elazar Cramer

    24.4.2017| 21:29
    Matt Gluck>

    That makes sense, but it's just a girlfriend. It's not like they're married. Maybe she isn't the right person for Kramer, so why shouldn't Jerry let him know?

Reena Zuckerman

Reena Zuckerman

24.4.2017| 21:26

I think that you should have told them in some regard, however, I can understand why it would hurt somebody's feelings if they were to tell their friend that they do not like their girlfriend. I think it is a very fine line of telling and not telling, but I think in this case I would agree with Jerry because all it could do was hurt feelings.

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  • Matt Gluck

    Matt Gluck

    24.4.2017| 21:29
    Reena Zuckerman>

    I agree with you because it can unfairly plant feelings in Kramer that he may not have had otherwise.

Josh Sussman

Josh Sussman

24.4.2017| 21:26

I Agree with jerry because you don't want to hurt their feelings and its not your place to talk trash about someone else's girlfriend. It could either ruin their relationship or your friendship.

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  • Josh Gans

    Josh Gans

    24.4.2017| 21:29
    Josh Sussman>

    I think that's true but they are such close friends that they want to tell the truth to one another, especially if holding back makes one experience a tough relationship.

  • Josh Gans

    Josh Gans

    24.4.2017| 21:29
    Josh Sussman>

    I think that's true but they are such close friends that they want to tell the truth to one another, especially if holding back makes one experience a tough relationship.

  • Josh Gans

    Josh Gans

    24.4.2017| 21:30
    Josh Sussman>

    I think that's true but they are such close friends that they want to tell the truth to one another, especially if holding back makes one experience a tough relationship.

  • Josh Gans

    Josh Gans

    24.4.2017| 21:30
    Josh Sussman>

    I think that's true but they are such close friends that they want to tell the truth to one another, especially if holding back makes one experience a tough relationship.

  • Josh Gans

    Josh Gans

    24.4.2017| 21:30
    Josh Sussman>

    I think that's true but they are such close friends that they want to tell the truth to one another, especially if holding back makes one experience a tough relationship.

  • Josh Gans

    Josh Gans

    24.4.2017| 21:30
    Josh Sussman>

    I think that's true but they are such close friends that they want to tell the truth to one another, especially if holding back makes one experience a tough relationship.

  • Josh Gans

    Josh Gans

    24.4.2017| 21:30
    Josh Sussman>

    I think that's true but they are such close friends that they want to tell the truth to one another, especially if holding back makes one experience a tough relationship.

Josh Gans

Josh Gans

24.4.2017| 21:26

I think Jerry should tell the truth because of how close they are, and the conversation should be positive and comforting. If they were less close, maybe not but in this case they are best friends, so yes, he should tell him the truth.

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  • Reena Zuckerman

    Reena Zuckerman

    24.4.2017| 21:28
    Josh Gans>

    I understand that, but there is also an idea of not wanting to hurt your friends feelings.

Micah Rothkopf

Micah Rothkopf

24.4.2017| 21:26

I agree with Seinfeld to an extent. If a girl makes my friend happy, it is not my job to dictate his or her life. This said, I feel that it is not right to lie to them. Additionally, it is not right to wait until they break up. This is my take on the situation.

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  • Evan Tall

    Evan Tall

    24.4.2017| 21:29
    Micah Rothkopf>

    Wait so you think that he should tell him?

Evan Tall

Evan Tall

24.4.2017| 21:28

I agree with Jerry because a person should not mess with other peoples relationships unless it harms someone.

Elazar Cramer

Elazar Cramer

24.4.2017| 21:28
I agree with Kramer. It's not the same as a bride. Marriage is a very holy thing, and someone on the day of their marriage is considered as if they are beautiful by virtue of the special day, even if they are not actually good-looking. A girlfriend, on the other hand, is not someone you're married to, and it's not a permanent relationship. A break-up is not the same as a divorce, and since it's a lot less holy of a relationship, I think it's OK to tell someone what you think if their partner in this situation.
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Elazar Cramer

Elazar Cramer

24.4.2017| 21:37
תגובה למקור Is Abraham a lair?>

This text supports Jerry's point of view.

תגובה אחת
  • אודי ליאון

    אודי ליאון

    24.4.2017| 21:40
    Elazar Cramer>

    Why? explain how…

Elazar Cramer

Elazar Cramer

24.4.2017| 21:39
תגובה למקור Is Abraham a lair?>

GROUP 1: This text supports Jerry's point of view because Avraham, like Jerry, doesn't tell the truth, for the greater good.

Evan Tall

Evan Tall

24.4.2017| 21:40
תגובה למקור No laughing matter>

Group 2: The white lie is God telling Sarah something that can is physically impossible. However, this does seem like a white lie at all because Sarah does have Yitzchak. It does not have anything to with the clip in our opinion because the text does not show a lie in the first place.

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Evan Tall
24.04.2017 21:40

Group 2: The white lie is God telling Sarah something that can is physically impossible. However, this does seem like a white lie at all because Sarah does have Yitzchak. It does not have anything to with the clip in our opinion because the text does not show a lie in the first place.

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אודי ליאון
24.04.2017 21:40

Why? explain how…

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Elazar Cramer
24.04.2017 21:39

GROUP 1: This text supports Jerry's point of view because Avraham, like Jerry, doesn't tell the truth, for the greater good.

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Elazar Cramer
24.04.2017 21:37

This text supports Jerry's point of view.

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Josh Gans
24.04.2017 21:30

I think that's true but they are such close friends that they want to tell the truth to one another, especially if holding back makes one experience a tough relationship.

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Josh Gans
24.04.2017 21:30

I think that's true but they are such close friends that they want to tell the truth to one another, especially if holding back makes one experience a tough relationship.

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Josh Gans
24.04.2017 21:30

I think that's true but they are such close friends that they want to tell the truth to one another, especially if holding back makes one experience a tough relationship.

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Josh Gans
24.04.2017 21:30

I think that's true but they are such close friends that they want to tell the truth to one another, especially if holding back makes one experience a tough relationship.

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